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Get Your Partner Sober Without Losing Your Mind, Your Boundaries, or Yourself

The 90-day intensive for when you're done waiting and ready to go all-in

 
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You're exhausted.

You've been trying to get your partner to see their drinking problem for months. Maybe years.

You've cried. You've begged. You've threatened. You've gathered evidence. You've made logical arguments. You've set boundaries that crumbled the moment they pushed back.

And nothing has worked.

Meanwhile, you're:

  • Walking on eggshells constantly
  • Playing detective with their drinking
  • Parenting them instead of partnering with them
  • Lying awake at 3am worrying
  • Putting your own life on hold
  • Slowly losing pieces of yourself

Let's face it...

You're running out of give-a-damn.

Not because you don't love them. Not because you're giving up.

Because you can't keep doing this at this pace for years.

You don't have enough:

  • ✗ Energy to keep fighting the same fight
  • ✗ Patience to wait for rock bottom
  • ✗ Hope to sustain you through another year of "maybe this time"
  • ✗ Pieces of yourself left to sacrifice
  • ✗ Time before you either break or leave

 

And here's what no one tells you: staying in limbo is not neutral. Every month you stay stuck costs you more energy you won't get back. More nights you'll never sleep again. More of yourself you'll have to rebuild later. The longer you wait to do this strategically, the less you you'll have left when you finally try.

 

You need this to move faster. And it can.

You Just Learned WHAT to Do. Now Let Me Show You HOW.

Over the last 5 days in Motivation Unlocked, you learned:

  • How to identify what motivates your partner
  • What they don't like about drinking
  • Their limiting beliefs about recovery
  • How to shift your energy from desperate to confident
  • How to frame recovery as an irresistible offer

That's the framework. That's the foundation.

But here's what I know from doing this work for years:

Knowing WHAT to do and actually DOING it consistently are two completely different things.

You're going to hit obstacles:

  • 'Wait, what do I say when they get defensive?'
  • 'How do I bring this up without triggering a fight?'
  • 'What if I try it and it doesn't work?'
  • 'Am I doing this right?'

You're going to lose momentum:

  • Week 1: You're energized and implementing
  • Week 3: You're discouraged because you're not seeing results yet
  • Week 5: You've slipped back into old patterns without realizing it

You're going to need troubleshooting:

  • Your partner's response isn't what you expected
  • You need to adjust the strategy for YOUR specific situation
  • You need someone to workshop your exact words before a big conversation

That's where most people fail.

Not because the strategy doesn't work.
Because they try to implement it alone, without guidance, and give up halfway through.

Boundaries & Breakthroughs is the difference between:

  • Knowing what to do ← You have this now
  • Actually doing it consistently for 90 days ← This is what you need help with
  • Getting expert guidance when you're stuck ← This is what keeps you going
  • Having accountability so you don't quit ← This is what makes it work

You've got the map. Now let me navigate with you.

Think of it as the "strategic sprint" option.

Instead of years of hoping and waiting, you're condensing the most effective influence work into 90 days of focused, expert-guided implementation.

You're not doing more of what hasn't worked.

You're doing something completely different - with someone who knows exactly how to guide you through it.

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WHAT BOUNDARIES & BREAKTHROUGHS ACTUALLY IS

This is not just another course where you learn more strategies and then figure it out on your own.

Yes, you'll learn deeper strategies over the 8 weeks (we're going way beyond what we covered in the challenge).

But the real value isn't the strategies.

The real value is having a team of experts there while you implement them.

Think of it like this:

Motivation Unlocked = Learning to drive (here's the gas, brake, steering wheel, and rules of the road)

Boundaries & Breakthroughs = Having TWO instructors with you for 90 days:

Me (Amber) - Making sure you successfully get through to your partner:

  • Teaching you advanced influence techniques
  • Watching you implement them
  • Correcting you before you make mistakes
  • Workshopping your specific conversations
  • Troubleshooting when things don't go as planned
  • Keeping you on track and accountable
  • Making sure you don't waste time on what doesn't work

Kim & Campbell - Making sure you don't lose yourself in the process:

  • Helping you set boundaries that actually hold
  • Keeping you emotionally grounded when things get chaotic
  • Teaching you how to stay regulated when your partner isn't
  • Making sure you're protecting yourself and your kids
  • Preventing burnout so you can finish what you start

You need both.

You can't get through to your partner if you're falling apart.

And getting through to your partner doesn't matter if you've destroyed yourself doing it.

Every week for 90 days:

  • I guide you through influencing your partner toward recovery
  • Kim & Campbell guide you through protecting yourself while you do it
  • You get coaching, accountability, and troubleshooting on BOTH sides
  • You're never alone, never guessing, never stuck

It's not JUST learning. It's learning + implementing + being coached through both parts in real-time.

That's the difference between information and transformation.

 

Go all-in for 8 weeks with proven strategies, expert guidance, and real support

 Only  Spots 

Here's how the 8 weeks actually work:

Every week you get both: 

Monday: Boundaries & Self-Care with Kim & Campbell

Learn to set boundaries that actually hold. Stay emotionally regulated when chaos hits. Protect yourself and your kids. Process what happened when you tried the strategies. Get the support you need so you don't burn out halfway through.

Tuesday: Influence Strategy with Amber

Master one critical influence principle per week - from rebuilding connection to identifying their values to getting that first "yes." Workshop your specific conversations. Get exact scripts. Troubleshoot when things don't go as planned.

 

Why You Need Both Tracks Running At The Same Time:

You can't influence your partner effectively if you're falling apart emotionally.

And staying strong doesn't matter if you don't know HOW to actually get through to them.

Most programs give you one or the other. This gives you both - every single week for 8 weeks.

Plus:

  • 24/7 AI support when you're stuck at 2am
  • Access to all our existing courses
  • The "Just In Case" vault (divorce attorneys, custody specialists, financial advisors)
  • All future challenge replays

Reserve your seat now!🎫

Enrollement Closes Soon!

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Let's be honest about what's at stake here:

If your partner chooses sobriety: You get your life back. Your relationship back. Your peace back.

If they don't: You'll have done everything possible, and you'll move forward with clarity and strength instead of regret.

Either way, 8 weeks from now you're no longer stuck. That alone is worth the investment.

A Proven System to Help Your Loved One Choose Sobriety—While You Reclaim Your Life

 

Boundaries Session with Kim & Campbell


Process what happened when you tried the strategy. Set boundaries that actually hold. Stay emotionally grounded when things get chaotic. Get support from family recovery specialists who understand this exact situation.

Strategy Sessions with Amber


Master one critical influence principle per week - from rebuilding connection to getting that first "yes." Leave every call with specific scripts, timing strategies, and confidence in exactly what to say (and what not to say).

24/7 Support with Amber AI (6 months)


Stuck at 2am wondering how to respond to a text? Need to workshop a conversation before it happens? Get instant guidance anytime you need it - not just during the 8-week intensive, but for half a year after.

Bonus #1: Access to all of our online courses 

Invisible Intervention, RecoverU (recovery by enneagram type), Beyond Boundaries, Voices and Values, Motivation Masterclass - immediate access to everything we've built. Dive deeper on any topic when you need it.

Bonus #2: The "Just In Case" Vault


Expert interviews with divorce attorneys, custody specialists, financial advisors who've worked with families dealing with addiction. Hope you never need it. Sleep better knowing it's there if you do.

Bonus #3:  All Challenge Replays


Revisit Motivation Unlocked anytime plus get access to every future challenge we run - ongoing learning and reinforcement whenever you need a reset.

You Might Be Wondering...

 

Your best shot at creating change before more years pass. Before more is lost. Before the situation reaches a crisis point.

 

THE INVESTMENT

$5,000 for everything:

✓ Your best shot at getting them sober in months, not years
✓ Expert guidance twice a week on YOUR specific situation
✓ Accountability to stay consistent (so you don't quit halfway through like you have before)
✓ Protection for yourself so you don't break
✓ No regrets about what you could have tried
✓ Skills you'll have forever (even if this relationship doesn't work out)

 

 

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Discount for paying in full.

Reserve Your Spot - for only $1,000

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⏱️Secure Your Spot Now, Before Time Runs Out! ⏱️

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90 days from now, you're either:

→ Watching your partner show up sober, engaged, and present
→ Having honest conversations instead of walking on eggshells
→ Sleeping through the night
→ Reclaiming energy you forgot you had

OR you have:

→ Absolute clarity that they're not going to change
→ No regrets about what you didn't try
→ The strength and plan to do what you need to do next

Either way, you're no longer stuck."