The Strategies You Just Learned Work. But Only When You Can Execute Them Consistently.

And here's the truth: consistent execution is the hardest part.

Over the last few days in Motivation Unlocked, you learned powerful strategies:

• How to identify what motivates your partner
• How to frame recovery as an irresistible offer
• How to shift from desperate to confident energy
• How to use their values and identity to create openings

You understand the concepts. You get why they work.

But when you try to implement them, the results are inconsistent:

Sometimes it seems to work - you have a good conversation, they seem open, you feel hopeful.

Then the next day, everything goes back to the way it was.

Or it works for a week or two, but then they shut down again and you're back to square one.

Or you try the same approach that worked last time, and this time it backfires completely.

If this sounds familiar, you're dealing with one (or both) of these problems:

Problem #1: You Can't Stay Emotionally Regulated

You start strong, but by day 3 you're so exhausted, hurt, and frustrated that you slip back into old patterns.

You snap at them. You get desperate. You lose your cool. And suddenly all that strategic influence goes out the window.

You know WHAT to do. You just can't stay regulated enough to DO it consistently.

Problem #2: The Strategies Need Fine-Tuning For Your Specific Spouse

The core strategies work - but the exact words, timing, and approach need to fit your spouse's unique personality.

A conflict-avoidant spouse needs different phrasing than someone who's comfortable with direct confrontation.

Someone with narcissistic tendencies needs different validation language than someone who's naturally humble.

Someone with ADHD needs different timing and structure than someone without it.

The strategies are sound. They just need to be adapted to fit your spouse's specific personality traits and circumstances.

Here's What Most People Don't Realize:

Solid strategies executed inconsistently get inconsistent results.

You don't need MORE strategies. You don't need more advanced techniques.

You need two things:

1. Someone who can help you stay emotionally regulated enough to execute the strategies consistently - even when you're exhausted, hurt, and at the end of your rope.
2. Someone who can help you fine-tune the approach to fit your spouse's specific personality - so you know exactly what words to use, when to say them, and what to avoid.

That's exactly what Influence Accelerator does.

Here's What Customization Actually Looks Like

Every spouse is different. What works for one backfires for another. That's why generic strategies get inconsistent results.

Let me show you what happens when you customize the approach to fit the specific person:

Case Study #1: The Enneagram 7 Who Needed Control

The Situation:

Sarah's husband had been sober for 3 weeks, but she was worried. He seemed moody, unstable, resistant to talking about his recovery.

She kept saying: "I just want him to get some professional help."

The Problem:

Every time she brought it up, he got defensive and shut down the conversation. The strategy of "encouraging professional support" made sense - but the way she was saying it kept backfiring.

What I Noticed:

As I listened to Sarah describe him over several weeks, I started picking up on personality patterns:

• Fear of missing out
• Avoidance of uncomfortable emotions
• Need to feel in control
• Resistant to anything that felt like being told what to do

Classic Enneagram 7 personality.

The Customization:

I gave Sarah:

• The exact words to use: Framing coaching as HIS opportunity for growth, not her demand for him to "get help"
• The exact timing: When he was feeling good about his sobriety progress, not when he was defensive
• What NOT to say: Anything that sounded like "you need help" or "I'm worried about you" - both trigger his fear of being controlled

The Result:

The next week, he enrolled in recovery coaching with me.

He's now watching all the video lessons, showing up to sessions consistently, making solid progress.

Same core strategy (encouraging professional support). Completely different execution based on his specific personality.

Case Study #2: The Ego-Driven Partner Who Needed Validation

The Situation:

Jennifer's husband was drinking heavily but refused to acknowledge it was a problem. Every time she tried to talk to him about it, he got defensive and dismissed her.

The Problem:

She was stuck in the "nagger" role - and the more she tried to help, the more he positioned her as "the person who's always psychoanalyzing me and trying to fix me."

What I Noticed:

As I listened to Jennifer describe their interactions over several weeks, a pattern emerged:

• He needed constant validation
• He positioned himself as "the expert" in every conversation
• He dismissed anything that felt like criticism
• His ego required a LOT of stroking

He had strong narcissistic tendencies.

The Problem Jennifer Didn't See:

She deeply resented having to validate him (understandably). So she was subconsciously avoiding it - which kept her stuck in the "nagger/psychoanalyzer" role.

The Customization:

We worked on two things:

1. Reframing her resentment: "You're not rewarding bad behavior. You're strategically using his need for validation to reposition yourself from adversary to trusted advisor."
2. Exact phrases to stroke his ego while planting seeds: We crafted specific language that made him feel respected and intelligent while subtly introducing the idea that his drinking might be holding him back from being his best self.

The Result:

Within weeks, he started opening up to her about his drinking - something he'd never done before.

She went from "the person nagging me" to "the person I trust" - which changed everything about her ability to influence him.

Same core strategy (building influence through connection). Completely different execution based on his specific psychological drivers.

This Is What You're Actually Getting In This Program

Not just strategies. Strategic customization.

I listen to how your spouse responds. I pick up on their personality patterns, their unique triggers, their psychological drivers.

Then I help you customize the influence approach to fit THEM specifically - with exact words to use, exact timing, and clear understanding of what will backfire.

Because here's the truth:

You can't learn this level of customization in a challenge. You can't get it from a course.

This only happens when someone who understands influence psychology listens to YOUR specific situation and helps you adapt the strategies to fit YOUR specific spouse.

That's what you're paying for. That's what makes the difference between inconsistent results and breakthrough moments.

Everything you get:

🔥 The Complete 8-Week Dual-Track Training System

TRACK 1: Strategic Influence with Amber (Tuesdays, 4:30pm ET) 8 live group coaching calls where we customize everything you learned in the challenge to YOUR specific situation.

PLUS: 8 Complete Video Lesson Modules

• Week 1: From Enemy to Ally
• Week 2: Strategic Observation - The Art of Noticing Out Loud
• Week 3: The 6 Core Human Needs (Why Your Partner Really Drinks & How to Make Recovery Irresistible)
• Week 4: Validating Without Enabling
• Week 5: The Awareness Strategy (Why Your Influence Strategies Backfire)
• Week 6: Momentum Builders vs. Momentum Killers
• Week 7: What To Do When They Finally Say Yes
• Week 8: Putting It All Together

Each week you'll watch the lesson BEFORE the live call, then we'll customize the strategies to your person and troubleshoot your specific challenges in real-time.

TRACK 2: Emotional Regulation with Kim & Campbell (Wednesdays, 2:30pm ET) 8 live regulation sessions where you master YOUR nervous system so you can actually execute the influence strategies.

PLUS: 8 Complete Video Lesson Modules

• Week 1: Mastering Self-Regulation
• Week 2: Designing the Life You Want
• Week 3: Finding Your Blind Spots
• Week 4: Understanding Your Internal Boundaries
• Week 5: Unique Grief (The Grief Nobody Talks About)
• Week 6: The Necessity of Grit
• Week 7: The 360 Degree-ness of Shifting Focus
• Week 8: Gaining and Maintaining Happiness

Here's why this dual-track matters: All the influence skills in the world won't work if you can't stay regulated. But all the self-care in the world won't create change if you don't have strategic influence skills. You need BOTH, running in parallel.

Small group format (max 5 participants) means you get personalized attention, not generic advice.

All calls recorded and available in your member portal along with all lesson content - lifetime access.

Value of live coaching + complete curriculum: $8,000

⭐ RecoverU Training - Recovery Strategies by Enneagram Type

As part of your onboarding, you'll get immediate access to RecoverU - our Enneagram-based training that helps you identify your spouse's personality type and understand their core drivers.

This accelerates the customization work we do together. Many participants watch the relevant sections before our first call and come in with insights like "I think he's a 7" or "She's definitely got 2 tendencies" - which lets us hit the ground running.

Understanding your spouse's Enneagram type is one of the fastest ways to decode their psychological patterns - what motivates them, what shuts them down, and how they approach change.

⭐⭐24/7 Support with Amber AI (6 months)

Stuck at 2am wondering how to respond to a text?

Need to think through a conversation before it happens?

Want to replay a strategy we discussed but can't remember the details?

Get instant guidance anytime you need it - not just during the 8-week intensive, but for half a year after.

This alone is worth thousands. Most programs leave you on your own between calls. You'll never be stuck wondering "what do I do now?"

✅ Bonus #1: The "Just In Case" Vault

Expert interviews with:

• Divorce attorneys specializing in addiction-related cases
• Custody specialists who understand substance abuse dynamics
• Financial advisors experienced with separating from someone with an addiction
• Legal experts on protecting yourself and your assets

Hope you never need it. Sleep better knowing it's there if you do.

Value: $1,500

✅Bonus #2: All Challenge Replays

Revisit Motivation Unlocked anytime plus get access to every future challenge we run - ongoing learning and reinforcement whenever you need a reset.

Value: $1,000+

✅Bonus #3: The Emergency Response Playbook -

This is your go-to guide when something happens and you need to know what to do RIGHT NOW. Scripts for every crisis scenario.

Value: $497

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✅Bonus #4: The Partner Scripts Library  

Word-for-word scripts organized by situation, by what your person values, and by which psychological gauge you're targeting.

Value $397

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✅Bonus #5: The 30-Day Integration Guide

So you don't finish week 8 and wonder 'now what?' This keeps you on track for the critical month after the program.

Value $297

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✅Bonus #6: The Values Assessment & Influence Map

A personalized report that tells you exactly which techniques to use first with YOUR specific person.

Value: $297

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That's $3,988 in bonuses. You're getting all of that included."

Total Program Value: $14,285

Your Investment: $5,000

(Payment plans available - as low as $1,000/month for 5 months)

Here's What It Comes Down To:

You can keep trying to execute these strategies alone - hoping you'll stay consistent, hoping you'll figure out the right customization, hoping your emotional regulation holds.

Or you can get the expert guidance that makes the difference between inconsistent results and breakthrough moments.

8 Weeks From Now, you'll either have:

→ A partner moving toward recovery because you executed the strategies flawlessly with expert customization

→ Absolute clarity they're not going to change, plus the strength to move forward

Either way, you're no longer stuck.

THE INVESTMENT

Everything Included:

✓ 8 Shifting Your Focus Lessons with Kim and Campbell / 8 Advanced Influence lessons with Amber

✓ 16 live coaching calls (8 weeks of dual-track support)

✓ Strategic customization with Amber every Tuesday

✓ Emotional regulation support with Kim & Campbell every Monday

✓ 24/7 AI support for 6 months

✓ Access to RecoverU 

✓ The "Just In Case" Vault 

✓ All challenge replays 

Total Value: $12,000+

Your Investment: $5,000

Pay in Full: $4,769  (best value), or

Pay 1,000/month for 5 months, or

 Flexible payment plans offered through Klarna

Some HSA/FSA plans accepted

Enrollment closes January 29th @ 2am

One Last Thing:

You've already spent months (maybe years) trying to figure this out alone.

You've already invested countless hours of emotional energy, sleepless nights, and pieces of yourself.

The question isn't whether you can afford $5,000.

The question is: can you afford another year of this?

Another year of:

• Inconsistent results that leave you hopeless
• Guessing what to say and getting it wrong
• Emotional exhaustion with no support
• Watching your spouse slip further away
• Losing more of yourself in the process

Or you can invest 8 weeks in doing this right - with expert guidance, strategic customization, and emotional support.

The choice is yours.