These are ten prevalent yet INEFFECTIVE things family members do to control their loved one's addiction. These behaviors are slowing down your loved one's recovery process.
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Yelling, Nagging, Threatening, and Preaching
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Spying (driving by to see if they're where they said they were, calling friends to see if their story lined up, going through their phone)
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Soliciting help from outsiders (getting help from other family members, co-workers, friends, and church family) is a surefire way to get your addicted loved one to resent and not trust you.
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Walking on Egg Shells (this isn't helpful)
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Making you sign a "home contract" (don't do this!)
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I am giving Huge Ultimatums- a difference between a boundary and a request.
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Bailing You Out of Sticky Situations
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Taking things away
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Controlling the money
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They baby you! (protect you from everything)
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