When we say "high-functioning," we’re talking about someone who has a drinking problem but still appears to have their life together—at least on the surface. They might hold down a job, pay the bills, or even excel in their career. They’re the type of person who others might look at and say, “There’s no way they have a problem!”

But here’s the thing: functionality in one area doesn’t mean there isn’t chaos brewing beneath the surface. High-functioning alcoholics often struggle at home, where the cracks in their behavior are more visible. Maybe they’re emotionally distant, unreliable, or quick to anger. Or perhaps they’re hiding their drinking, making excuses, or avoiding situations where alcohol isn’t involved.

The term “high-functioning” can be misleading because it downplays the seriousness of the problem. It’s not a sign of control—it’s a stage of alcoholism that can progress if left unaddressed. The good news? This challenge is designed to help you break through that denial and take action before things spiral further.

That’s exactly why this challenge is for you! High-functioning alcoholics are often in deep denial about their drinking because they’re still managing to “hold it together” on the surface. This challenge will teach you how to break through that denial and help them see the truth without feeling attacked or judged.

No worries.  I'm going to show you how to side-step that landmine.  We'll be going deeper than just the alcohol problem. We'll be looking for what's truely keeping them stuck and what will actually create LASTING change! 

If you feel like you’ve hit a wall, this challenge will give you fresh tools and insights you haven’t tried before. It’s not about forcing change—it’s about understanding what’s really keeping them stuck and using that knowledge to influence them in a way that works.

This program teaches you how to locate and nurture those motivators, helping your loved one connect with their own reasons for taking action. At the same time, it helps you identify and address the hesitations, fears, and concerns that are holding them back. By understanding what’s really driving their resistance, you’ll be able to approach them in a way that feels safe, supportive, and effective.

This isn’t about manipulation or control—it’s about creating an environment where your loved one feels safe enough to look at hard truths and empowered enough to make the decision to change for themselves. That’s why it works.

Live attendance isn’t required, but it’s highly encouraged. The live sessions are designed to deliver the material in a focused, impactful way, and there’s something powerful about being present in the moment. That said, I know life happens, and not everyone’s schedule will align perfectly.

If you’re in General Admission, you’ll have access to the replays for 24 hours after each session, so you can catch up on anything you miss. For VIP attendees, you’ll have extended access to the replays for a full week, along with AI-generated notes to make reviewing the material even easier.

While you can absolutely benefit from the replays, attending live gives you the chance to fully engage with the energy of the session and, if you’re a VIP, ask your questions during the exclusive VIP hour. So, if you can make it live, I’d recommend it—but either way, you’ll have everything you need to succeed.

Don't go an announce it, but if they ask...

Just let them know that you realized you haven't been responding well to the situation, and you're trying to work on how to be more supporitve instead of being negative.

While most of the examples and discussions will refer to alcohol, the truth is, there really isn’t a significant difference in the recovery process between alcohol and drug use. The principles, strategies, and tools you’ll learn are designed to address the core issues of addiction—whether it’s alcohol, drugs, or any other substance.

The focus is on understanding the underlying behaviors, breaking through denial, and motivating change in a way that works, no matter the substance. So, if your partner is struggling with drugs instead of alcohol, you’ll still find everything here completely relevant and applicable to your situation.

That’s okay! This challenge is designed to meet them where they are. You’ll learn how to create urgency and help them take the first step, even if they’re not ready to quit entirely yet.

Even if your loved one doesn’t choose to change right away, you’ll walk away from this program feeling clear-hearted. You’ll know, without a shadow of a doubt, that you’ve done everything in your power to help them. No guilt. No second-guessing. You’ll have the peace of mind that comes from knowing you’ve shown up with love, clarity, and intention.

The VIP upgrade is designed to give you even more value and support. It includes:

🔥 A one-hour live Q&A session before each main session, where you can get personalized feedback and answers to your specific questions.

🔥 Extended access to session replays for a full week, so you can revisit the material at your convenience.

🔥 AI-generated notes from each session, saving you time and ensuring you don’t miss any key insights.

The general admission ticket still gives you access to all the main sessions and core strategies. VIP is an added layer of support, but you’ll still gain valuable tools and insights with the general admission option.

The main sessions are designed to be concise and impactful, typically lasting about an hour. If you choose the VIP upgrade, you’ll have an additional hour of Q&A before each session. Beyond that, the time you spend applying what you learn will depend on your unique situation—but remember, even small, consistent actions can lead to big results.

Absolutely! If you’re comfortable navigating Zoom, logging into a website, and opening emails, you’ll be just fine. We’ll be using Zoom for the live sessions, which is super straightforward and something most people are already familiar with. Once you register, you’ll receive clear instructions and links to access everything you need.

And don’t worry—there’s no complicated tech or fancy tools involved. I’ve designed this program to be as simple and user-friendly as possible, so you can focus on the content and not stress about the technology. If you can click a link, you’re good to go!

I get it—life happens, and sometimes the timing just isn’t right. The good news is that we do plan to offer this challenge again in the future. However, I can’t say for sure exactly when the next one will be. Our goal is to host a new challenge every month or two, but it really depends on scheduling and demand.

That said, if you’re feeling even a little bit ready to take action, I encourage you to jump in now. There’s no perfect time to start, but the sooner you begin, the sooner you’ll have the tools to help your loved one. Plus, you’ll be part of this live group experience, which can be incredibly motivating and supportive.

If now truly isn’t the right time, don’t worry—you’ll have another opportunity down the road. Just keep an eye out for updates so you don’t miss your chance!

For General Admission attendees, the focus will be on delivering all the core material during the main sessions to ensure we stay on track and cover everything you need to know. This means there won’t be time for live Q&A in the general sessions, as answering individual questions can often lead to tangents or even turn into therapy-style discussions, which could derail the group’s progress.

However, if you’d like the opportunity to ask questions and get personalized feedback, the VIP upgrade is perfect for you. During the VIP hour before each main session, you’ll have dedicated time to ask your specific questions, get tailored advice, and receive the extra support you need to apply the strategies to your unique situation. It’s a focused, private space designed to give you the clarity and confidence to move forward.

This program is about transformation, not just information. The strategies I teach require your active participation and commitment to see results. Because of the nature of this work, I don’t offer refunds. However, I’ve designed the program to deliver maximum value, and I’m confident that if you engage fully, you’ll find it to be a worthwhile investment in your family’s future.

The techniques and strategies in this challenge are designed to be effective across all types of relationships—whether you’re trying to help a parent, sibling, child, or close friend. However, the content is specifically tailored to the unique dynamics of a spousal relationship with a functional alcoholic.

If your situation feels very different, you might find our Invisible Intervention program to be a better fit. It’s a broader approach designed to help family members and loved ones navigate these challenges in a variety of relational contexts.