When Women Get Aggressive: The Hidden Danger of Alcohol-Fueled Violence
Aug 10, 2025
When we think about aggression and violence in relationships, the narrative often centers on men as the perpetrators. But what happens when the roles are reversed? Society tends to downplay or dismiss violent behavior from women, especially when alcohol is involved. This oversight can have devastating consequences, as seen in several recent high-profile cases.
The Cases That Demand Attention
- Courtney Clenney and Christian Obumseli
Courtney Clenney, an OnlyFans model, fatally stabbed her boyfriend, Christian Obumseli, in their Miami apartment. Reports revealed a history of volatile and aggressive behavior, often fueled by alcohol. Despite clear warning signs, her behavior was overlooked or excused until it escalated to tragedy. - Melissa Turner and Matthew Trussler
Melissa Turner, a cosplayer, was convicted of killing her boyfriend, Matthew Trussler, during a drunken argument. Evidence showed a pattern of aggression when she drank, but like many cases, it was brushed aside as “just t...
The Crushing Reality of Being Married To An Alcoholic
Sep 18, 2024
Dear Amber,
The details (names and places) mentioned in this email you are about to read have been changed in order to protect the interests of both myself and my former wife. Although the story I'm going to share with you may seem outlandish and at times would be hard for any reasonable person to believe, it's most certainly true. This is my account of my 14 year relationship with my former spouse/wife who struggled with addiction to the detriment of our wonderful future together. This is an account of everything I can remember, how our relationship started, the first drink she ever took and the eventual 5-7 breakups prior to our divorce as well as the 7-9 breakups (15 total heartbreaking separations) after our divorce and the final ending of our relationship on Jan 1, 2024.
Falling in Love
My wife and I worked in healthcare and began dating after working with one another for about 2 years. I actively pursued her by stopping, talking and eventually asking her out on a...
