Should I Stay or Should I Go? Here's the Question You Need to Answer First

There comes a point in some relationships where you feel like you've run into the same brick wall so many times that you start wondering if you're losing your mind.

You love this person. The relationship isn't bad all the time. In fact, there are plenty of good moments. But somehow you always end up back in the exact same argument, the same hurt, the same disappointment.

After enough cycles, one question starts to take over:

Is this relationship fixable, or do I need to walk away?

If you're asking yourself that question, you're not alone. It's one of the most common struggles I see, and unfortunately, it's also one of the hardest to get clear answers about.

Everyone Has an Opinion About Your Relationship

When you're hurting, it's natural to reach out.

Maybe you talk to your best friend.

Maybe your family.

Maybe your therapist.

Or maybe you ask a bunch of strangers online because they feel more objec...